Sorry, I was speaking more generally of “dating as numbers game”, not disagreeing with you. I find many people who worry about the idea of a “numbers game” see that as a problem rather than an opportunity.
I must note that I am almost pathologically gregarious and outgoing myself, and have an unfortunate habit of offering unhelpful advice on such to those who aren’t—and if I seem to you to have done that, I most sincerely apologise.
Ah ok. I was puzzled I guess as that didn’t seem otherwise very relevant. Yes, thinking of meeting many girls as a special case of meeting many people does make it seem less daunting to me!
Yes, thinking of meeting many girls as a special case of meeting many people does make it seem less daunting to me!
I do believe you’ve hit upon an important perspective trick. It’s meeting people. This also allows you to do the “don’t think about it” Zen mind trick.
Sorry, I was speaking more generally of “dating as numbers game”, not disagreeing with you. I find many people who worry about the idea of a “numbers game” see that as a problem rather than an opportunity.
I must note that I am almost pathologically gregarious and outgoing myself, and have an unfortunate habit of offering unhelpful advice on such to those who aren’t—and if I seem to you to have done that, I most sincerely apologise.
Ah ok. I was puzzled I guess as that didn’t seem otherwise very relevant. Yes, thinking of meeting many girls as a special case of meeting many people does make it seem less daunting to me!
I do believe you’ve hit upon an important perspective trick. It’s meeting people. This also allows you to do the “don’t think about it” Zen mind trick.