But I got used to that once it really sank in that unless I’m really in the middle of nowhere, I can get almost anything I actually need almost immediately, and almost anything else within a few days.
Yeah, it’s pretty crazy. A similar thought has occurred to me. I used to drive from Vegas to Mexico with my girlfriend for dental work. I remember passing through areas that felt incredibly remote, but even the most remote areas were never really more than an hour or so away from a Walmart or something. I think it’d take some actual effort to find a place that is truly remote.
The mental overhead was a big deal for me. For example, I’d wanted to get a new job for quite a few years, but felt weighed down like I had no time or energy to look; once we hit the road I was able to actually spend time and thought on this, and got a new job within a few months.
I’m glad to hear it! I’m in the same ballpark. I wonder how common this sort of thing is.
I feel like it’s something that many people should at least experiment with though. I suspect that a lot of people would predict the mental overhead to be a big deal but after trying they’d find that it was actually a big deal. I also suspect that this mental overhead affects people in ways that are hard to notice. Like maybe it leads to procrastination or something.
I will say that there is a lot of value in having dedicated spaces for specific activities that you actually do often, rather than having to constantly convert a multi-use space into different modes. That adds up in the same way having a commute adds up, vs working from home.
I’m not sure what I think about the value of spaciousness. I’d love to hear about any specific examples you have in mind.
Having less stuff also means being able to spend more per item where it matters to you, in order to get higher quality.
I’m not sure what I think about the value of spaciousness. I’d love to hear about any specific examples you have in mind.
Sure. To be clear: It doesn’t apply to everything. And individual rooms don’t/wouldn’t need to be huge. I’ve looked at house floor plans with walk-in closets in the master bedroom that are larger than my whole trailer, or big empty bathrooms and entryways, and find them to be just silly for any purpose I could imagine wanting. But for some personal examples where I think this applies:
My wife is a therapeutic musician who makes online courses. Whenever she wants to record (especially video) she needs to take about 20-30 minutes to move furniture and set up the main living area as her studio, and undo it all at the end. And she can’t leave it like that from day to day, since doing so blocks access to the kitchen and removes all but one chair we can sit in. It costs time each day, and costs the motivation to do it anywhere near as often as is optimal. And if you set up, but then there happens to be noise from neighbors or landscapers at a particular time, well, tough luck, all that time was wasted. But whenever we find ourselves at an AirBnB, and she can set up once and leave it for a week, and record whenever it happens to be quiet, she can get as much done as in the previous several months combined.
I really only need a laptop and lap desk for my job, but I know from experience that I would be marginally more productive (maybe 10%, or so) with a full-size monitor, or ideally two (I do use a regular mouse regardless, btw). Could I travel with monitors and set them up? Sure, but it would fill the multi-purpose workstation/dining table combo so I’d have to set it up and take it down each day and find a place to store them safely where they’re not too in the way, which in practice would mean all the floor space on my side of the bed, which would make it harder to get to my clothes in the morning and evening. If I had a desk that was permanently set up, with monitors and a docking station, then I would obviously use that, and could still sit with just the laptop when I wanted to.
I can cook quite well in a small kitchen, with small appliances, and it’s not too onerous to prep stuff on a flexible cutting board that I wash immediately or tuck on the bottom of the sink. But it sets an upper bound on my ability to lay out everything I need in a logical way, and increases the mental load to have to keep track of what’s where and what I can do at what points. So I cook less often, and less variety of dishes.
Our rear wall opens to serve as a patio, which is great, but it takes us about 5-10 minutes to open it up, secure the railing, set up the sunshade or clamshell tent, and get out the patio chairs and table. We don’t have patio doors, only a screen, so we can’t leave it down at night or if we go out (they do make patio doors for RVs, but they wouldn’t work in our setup). Mentally that’s enough to make us only want to do it once a month or so. When we happen to get a site with a well-shaded high-quality picnic table or covered patio, we do sit there more often.
That all makes sense. Work productivity and trivial inconveniences are important. At first I was thinking that 20-30 minutes to set up a work area is comparable to a commute and not too big a deal, but then I remembered that a) commutes suck and b) the raw number of minutes is only part of the story.
Kitchen space is the most important thing for me in terms of wanting space. I get a little overwhelmed when I’m cooking and things are tight. But this can be mitigated by focusing on a) meals that don’t require as much space and b) when I do want to cook a meal that requires more space, just take my time and go slow.
A few years out of college I ended up living in a 200 square foot micro-apartment. And my girlfriend lived with me there part-time. There were definitely things about it that aren’t ideal, but ultimately it was pretty tolerable.
I think a big reason why I don’t mind smaller spaces too much is because I don’t mind utilizing space outside of my apartment: communal areas in the apartment complex, coffee shops, libraries, parks. Not everyone’s like that though. Some people kinda need the privacy and comfort of home to relax.
Agreed, and for sure it has been working well for 4 years. I just don’t think it’s what I want for the next 40. It’s not intolerable. The benefits have been great, especially with the travel involved in my case. And good communal spaces help. But that’s a different question from whether the costs of having more space outweigh the benefits, in general or for particular people.
That’s all cool to hear!
Yeah, it’s pretty crazy. A similar thought has occurred to me. I used to drive from Vegas to Mexico with my girlfriend for dental work. I remember passing through areas that felt incredibly remote, but even the most remote areas were never really more than an hour or so away from a Walmart or something. I think it’d take some actual effort to find a place that is truly remote.
I’m glad to hear it! I’m in the same ballpark. I wonder how common this sort of thing is.
I feel like it’s something that many people should at least experiment with though. I suspect that a lot of people would predict the mental overhead to be a big deal but after trying they’d find that it was actually a big deal. I also suspect that this mental overhead affects people in ways that are hard to notice. Like maybe it leads to procrastination or something.
I’m not sure what I think about the value of spaciousness. I’d love to hear about any specific examples you have in mind.
Ah yeah, that’s a good point!
Sure. To be clear: It doesn’t apply to everything. And individual rooms don’t/wouldn’t need to be huge. I’ve looked at house floor plans with walk-in closets in the master bedroom that are larger than my whole trailer, or big empty bathrooms and entryways, and find them to be just silly for any purpose I could imagine wanting. But for some personal examples where I think this applies:
My wife is a therapeutic musician who makes online courses. Whenever she wants to record (especially video) she needs to take about 20-30 minutes to move furniture and set up the main living area as her studio, and undo it all at the end. And she can’t leave it like that from day to day, since doing so blocks access to the kitchen and removes all but one chair we can sit in. It costs time each day, and costs the motivation to do it anywhere near as often as is optimal. And if you set up, but then there happens to be noise from neighbors or landscapers at a particular time, well, tough luck, all that time was wasted. But whenever we find ourselves at an AirBnB, and she can set up once and leave it for a week, and record whenever it happens to be quiet, she can get as much done as in the previous several months combined.
I really only need a laptop and lap desk for my job, but I know from experience that I would be marginally more productive (maybe 10%, or so) with a full-size monitor, or ideally two (I do use a regular mouse regardless, btw). Could I travel with monitors and set them up? Sure, but it would fill the multi-purpose workstation/dining table combo so I’d have to set it up and take it down each day and find a place to store them safely where they’re not too in the way, which in practice would mean all the floor space on my side of the bed, which would make it harder to get to my clothes in the morning and evening. If I had a desk that was permanently set up, with monitors and a docking station, then I would obviously use that, and could still sit with just the laptop when I wanted to.
I can cook quite well in a small kitchen, with small appliances, and it’s not too onerous to prep stuff on a flexible cutting board that I wash immediately or tuck on the bottom of the sink. But it sets an upper bound on my ability to lay out everything I need in a logical way, and increases the mental load to have to keep track of what’s where and what I can do at what points. So I cook less often, and less variety of dishes.
Our rear wall opens to serve as a patio, which is great, but it takes us about 5-10 minutes to open it up, secure the railing, set up the sunshade or clamshell tent, and get out the patio chairs and table. We don’t have patio doors, only a screen, so we can’t leave it down at night or if we go out (they do make patio doors for RVs, but they wouldn’t work in our setup). Mentally that’s enough to make us only want to do it once a month or so. When we happen to get a site with a well-shaded high-quality picnic table or covered patio, we do sit there more often.
That all makes sense. Work productivity and trivial inconveniences are important. At first I was thinking that 20-30 minutes to set up a work area is comparable to a commute and not too big a deal, but then I remembered that a) commutes suck and b) the raw number of minutes is only part of the story.
Kitchen space is the most important thing for me in terms of wanting space. I get a little overwhelmed when I’m cooking and things are tight. But this can be mitigated by focusing on a) meals that don’t require as much space and b) when I do want to cook a meal that requires more space, just take my time and go slow.
A few years out of college I ended up living in a 200 square foot micro-apartment. And my girlfriend lived with me there part-time. There were definitely things about it that aren’t ideal, but ultimately it was pretty tolerable.
I think a big reason why I don’t mind smaller spaces too much is because I don’t mind utilizing space outside of my apartment: communal areas in the apartment complex, coffee shops, libraries, parks. Not everyone’s like that though. Some people kinda need the privacy and comfort of home to relax.
Agreed, and for sure it has been working well for 4 years. I just don’t think it’s what I want for the next 40. It’s not intolerable. The benefits have been great, especially with the travel involved in my case. And good communal spaces help. But that’s a different question from whether the costs of having more space outweigh the benefits, in general or for particular people.