All of this, and particularly the section on “reliability”, reminds me of Werner Erhard’s (founder of EST, which turned into Landmark) explication of integrity, outlined in Appendix 2 of this paper: http://www.wernererhard.com/integrity_paper.html
One key is that expectations of you include not just explicit things you tell people to expect but any you allow to be present.
This isn’t a moral obligation, just the reality that “if you let people expect things of you and don’t fulfill those expectations, there will be a breakdown in the workability of the relationship”.
All of this, and particularly the section on “reliability”, reminds me of Werner Erhard’s (founder of EST, which turned into Landmark) explication of integrity, outlined in Appendix 2 of this paper: http://www.wernererhard.com/integrity_paper.html
One key is that expectations of you include not just explicit things you tell people to expect but any you allow to be present.
This isn’t a moral obligation, just the reality that “if you let people expect things of you and don’t fulfill those expectations, there will be a breakdown in the workability of the relationship”.
I have screenshots of the relevant sections in these tweets: https://twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1100775171676389377