In your example, you anticipate your own experiences, but not your husband’s experiences. I don’t see how this is analogous to a case of cloning, where you equally anticipate both.
In my example, my husband and I are two people, anticipating the experience of two people. In your example, I am one person, anticipating the experience of two people. It seems to me that what my husband and I anticipate in my example is analogous to what I anticipate in your example.
But, regardless, I agree that we’re just disagreeing about names, and if you prefer the approach of not talking about “I expect” in such cases, that’s OK with me.
In my example, my husband and I are two people, anticipating the experience of two people. In your example, I am one person, anticipating the experience of two people. It seems to me that what my husband and I anticipate in my example is analogous to what I anticipate in your example.
But, regardless, I agree that we’re just disagreeing about names, and if you prefer the approach of not talking about “I expect” in such cases, that’s OK with me.