He wanted to ban sex outside of marriage. Describing that as “can’t have sex with the men you choose” is misleading, because it’s such a noncentral example of that. It’s literally true (if you choose someone outside of marriage, you’re not allowed to have sex with him) but the same could be said for banning sex on public busses (if you choose someone on a public bus, you’re not allowed to have sex with him).
Furthermore, I find it hard to accept that “ban sex outside of marriage” is such a bigoted policy that anyone who espouses it should not be allowed here. (And it’s not even restricted to women—he just thinks the policy would affect women differently than men.)
He wanted to ban sex outside of marriage. Describing that as “can’t have sex with the men you choose” is misleading, because it’s such a noncentral example of that. It’s literally true (if you choose someone outside of marriage, you’re not allowed to have sex with him) but the same could be said for banning sex on public busses (if you choose someone on a public bus, you’re not allowed to have sex with him).
Furthermore, I find it hard to accept that “ban sex outside of marriage” is such a bigoted policy that anyone who espouses it should not be allowed here. (And it’s not even restricted to women—he just thinks the policy would affect women differently than men.)