Okay, so you’re trying to say that… rapists don’t literally endorse hurting humanity? They know that rape does so, and they don’t try to figure out a way to stop, and you have to use force to make them stop because moral concerns don’t move them, but unlike evil mutant robot monsters, they feel guilty about it and write self-pitying essays?
I’m saying that they’re human, and best modeled as such. I am not advocating any particular method of rape prevention, but since we’re on LessWrong it should come as no surprise that I think understanding the problem fully is probably going to make our solutions better.
No it isn’t. It’s trying to help me understand what rapists tell themselves is why rape happens. I very much doubt those are the real causes.
No, it isn’t. He’s clearly an atypical rapist in that regard. If he was a typical rapist, then the essay would be hopelessly biased and would never have been published. Instead it is only mildly biased, and offers an opportunity to see into the mind of a rapist via his future self, who is now aware that his actions were rape and thus doesn’t try to excuse them.
If the scores of articles by feminists about how anyone, no matter how charming and friendly and good to have in your tribe, can be a predator don’t convince people, but this one article by a rapist does… then the article is worthwhile and I weep for humanity.
Just because someone is charming doesn’t mean they can’t be a monster. Most actual psychopaths are pretty good at hiding the fact. But that doesn’t mean that we should assume that just because someone is both charming and hurting people they’re a psychopath. Because it doesn’t take a psychopath to hurt people. If it did, the world would be a very different place.
I was giving examples of rapists who think of themselves as good people.
I’m saying that they’re human, and best modeled as such. I am not advocating any particular method of rape prevention, but since we’re on LessWrong it should come as no surprise that I think understanding the problem fully is probably going to make our solutions better.
No, it isn’t. He’s clearly an atypical rapist in that regard. If he was a typical rapist, then the essay would be hopelessly biased and would never have been published. Instead it is only mildly biased, and offers an opportunity to see into the mind of a rapist via his future self, who is now aware that his actions were rape and thus doesn’t try to excuse them.
Just because someone is charming doesn’t mean they can’t be a monster. Most actual psychopaths are pretty good at hiding the fact. But that doesn’t mean that we should assume that just because someone is both charming and hurting people they’re a psychopath. Because it doesn’t take a psychopath to hurt people. If it did, the world would be a very different place.
Oh. Why?