Your safest bet is to just arrange meeting her in a context where sex is a possibility (for example: “hey, do you want to go for coffee then stop at your place afterwards sometime?”). The desire to have sex isn’t something you can forecast far in advance, it can quickly change just like the weather.
You can have sexual conversation and establish the general desire for her to have you as a sexual partner. Essentially like saying she likes a particular restaurant but doesn’t schedule going there days or even hours in advance, she’s just open to going there when and if she feels the desire.
As far as how to be good at sexual talk in general, unfortunately it takes careful practice. You just have to risk being akward or turning her off (within reasonable limits, don’t immediately test saying something too crazy). Trial and error within reasonable bounds.
That is a very context dependent question.
Your safest bet is to just arrange meeting her in a context where sex is a possibility (for example: “hey, do you want to go for coffee then stop at your place afterwards sometime?”). The desire to have sex isn’t something you can forecast far in advance, it can quickly change just like the weather.
You can have sexual conversation and establish the general desire for her to have you as a sexual partner. Essentially like saying she likes a particular restaurant but doesn’t schedule going there days or even hours in advance, she’s just open to going there when and if she feels the desire.
As far as how to be good at sexual talk in general, unfortunately it takes careful practice. You just have to risk being akward or turning her off (within reasonable limits, don’t immediately test saying something too crazy). Trial and error within reasonable bounds.
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