True, but you can still get Alicorn’s issues again—“let’s all hug NewMember, except NiceGirlWhoGotRaped” doesn’t sound terribly comfortable for all involved, either. Good protocols can probably solve that, but that does get complicated quickly.
For sure, the awkwardness of doing something that one or a few are unable to do, and when that activity is already sensitive individuals for the excluded.
I would allow that this most direct potential problem is avoided by Nyan’s “Opt-in” caveat.
True, but you can still get Alicorn’s issues again—“let’s all hug NewMember, except NiceGirlWhoGotRaped” doesn’t sound terribly comfortable for all involved, either. Good protocols can probably solve that, but that does get complicated quickly.
For sure, the awkwardness of doing something that one or a few are unable to do, and when that activity is already sensitive individuals for the excluded.
That is indeed the motivation