For the record (I don’t think this is objectifying, but my calibration’s pretty confused lately), yes we’d probably prefer it was ‘nothing,’ but we still notice what you’re wearing and respond strongly to it, and no, it’s not as simple as “less is better”.
Well, I wouldn’t say that women can not wear clothes that men find attractive/unattractive, or otherwise interesting. But I know from conversations that many men consider a good majority of what women wear to be pointless and stupid looking. All the guys I know are practically offended by those baby-doll dress, or stuff like shoes with bows on them.
I have to agree. I mean, I like dressing up, but there is definite limit of like an hour which I will not go beyond. If an hour of work can’t make you look good, no amount of time will.
For the record (I don’t think this is objectifying, but my calibration’s pretty confused lately), yes we’d probably prefer it was ‘nothing,’ but we still notice what you’re wearing and respond strongly to it, and no, it’s not as simple as “less is better”.
Well, I wouldn’t say that women can not wear clothes that men find attractive/unattractive, or otherwise interesting. But I know from conversations that many men consider a good majority of what women wear to be pointless and stupid looking. All the guys I know are practically offended by those baby-doll dress, or stuff like shoes with bows on them.
I have to agree. I mean, I like dressing up, but there is definite limit of like an hour which I will not go beyond. If an hour of work can’t make you look good, no amount of time will.