I have briefly considered transitioning, or identifying as non-binary, explicitly for the reasons you elaborate here, and also a sense that my own sexuality was inappropriate or harmful compared to the sexuality of a queer person, which I saw celebrated.
I decided not to, because I never actually felt deeply and internally that I was the wrong gender or not well-described by ‘male’, and it is very costly to affect a transition and on reflection I didn’t expect the results to be worth it.
I have briefly considered transitioning, or identifying as non-binary, explicitly for the reasons you elaborate here, and also a sense that my own sexuality was inappropriate or harmful compared to the sexuality of a queer person, which I saw celebrated.
I decided not to, because I never actually felt deeply and internally that I was the wrong gender or not well-described by ‘male’, and it is very costly to affect a transition and on reflection I didn’t expect the results to be worth it.