The Stoics put this idea in a much kinder way: control the controllable (specifically our actions and attitudes), accept the uncontrollable. The problem is, people’s could’s are broken. I have managed to make myself much unhappier by thinking I can control my actions until I read Nate Soares’ post I linked above. You can’t, even in the everyday definition of control, forgetting about paradoxes of “free will”.
The Stoics put this idea in a much kinder way: control the controllable (specifically our actions and attitudes), accept the uncontrollable.
The problem is, people’s could’s are broken. I have managed to make myself much unhappier by thinking I can control my actions until I read Nate Soares’ post I linked above. You can’t, even in the everyday definition of control, forgetting about paradoxes of “free will”.