There’s always the third option: everyone thinks the other side is more in control than they are, no one is actually in control in anything like a satisfactory way. Each individual feels part of a system that narrows their choices so much they have basically no agency at all. The system churns on all the same, while everyone seemingly hates it (or at least would like something better).
There’s always the third option: everyone thinks the other side is more in control than they are, no one is actually in control in anything like a satisfactory way. Each individual feels part of a system that narrows their choices so much they have basically no agency at all. The system churns on all the same, while everyone seemingly hates it (or at least would like something better).