This happened last year, and since that time we’ve talked about it more. I think it was a genuine mistake/misunderstanding and not a deliberate attempt to alienate anyone. I don’t know how the other woman took the whole situation. I know it pushed my you-don’t-belong-here button, and I responded based on that. The whole thing would have gone better if I had responded more charitably.
UPDATE from Submitter C
This happened last year, and since that time we’ve talked about it more. I think it was a genuine mistake/misunderstanding and not a deliberate attempt to alienate anyone. I don’t know how the other woman took the whole situation. I know it pushed my you-don’t-belong-here button, and I responded based on that. The whole thing would have gone better if I had responded more charitably.