Neither of these links contain statistics about what fraction of women like being verbally asked for consent or dislike having to initiate sex. They’re literally just one woman talking about her experience. I don’t think this is very good evidence for your claim which is pretty central to your post.
I don’t have a strong guess about what fraction of women strongly dislike being verbally asked for sex (especially if it’s done reasonably skillfully and non-robotically); just to add another anecdote since we’re apparently trading anecdotes around, I am a woman who would strongly dislike not being asked verbally before having sex with someone for the first time.
I would guess that more than half dislike having to initiate sex, based on vibes, but I’m pretty uncertain what fraction would say this is the case
Neither of these links contain statistics about what fraction of women like being verbally asked for consent or dislike having to initiate sex. They’re literally just one woman talking about her experience. I don’t think this is very good evidence for your claim which is pretty central to your post.
I don’t have a strong guess about what fraction of women strongly dislike being verbally asked for sex (especially if it’s done reasonably skillfully and non-robotically); just to add another anecdote since we’re apparently trading anecdotes around, I am a woman who would strongly dislike not being asked verbally before having sex with someone for the first time.
I would guess that more than half dislike having to initiate sex, based on vibes, but I’m pretty uncertain what fraction would say this is the case