I think the idea of personas is at least worth trying.
Not sure if I qualify as a lurker, but, well… this is a dojo. If a little kid walks in here and asks a stupid question, rhetorical and logical ass-kicking will commence. The virtues of rationality number twelve, and mercy is not among them. It’s all terribly serious.
I very strongly recommend maintaining norms of courtesy, unless we are specifically trying to train the ability to stay calm when attacked—and that isn’t beginner’s work.
It’s impossible to completely avoid hurting people’s feelings, but it cuts down on the noise level if you start with the presumption that people are capable of learning, and that you can’t deduce their general defects of intellect and character because they asked a stupid question.
If I’ve jumped to inaccurate conclusions about what you mean by ass-kicking and lack of mercy, please let me know.
I think the idea of personas is at least worth trying.
I very strongly recommend maintaining norms of courtesy, unless we are specifically trying to train the ability to stay calm when attacked—and that isn’t beginner’s work.
It’s impossible to completely avoid hurting people’s feelings, but it cuts down on the noise level if you start with the presumption that people are capable of learning, and that you can’t deduce their general defects of intellect and character because they asked a stupid question.
If I’ve jumped to inaccurate conclusions about what you mean by ass-kicking and lack of mercy, please let me know.
No, that’s exactly what I meant. Thank you.