More like giving the higher kyu player in Go handicap stones. Which of course, according to you, means the better Go player really wants to lose as his/her end goal.
Giving someone an option != “would really like you to do that” != (with emphasis!) someone’s ‘end goal’
Spelling it out for you, to save you from potential future embarrassments.
“tapping out on the basis of your antagonism” = “me getting so irritated with you that I lose patience to engage in any further discussion”
“tapping out” = “refusing to engage in any further discussion”
“antagonism” = “the reason why I am irritated and lose patience”
“I’m doing X to give you the option to” = “I’d really like you to”
It’s not magic.
More like giving the higher kyu player in Go handicap stones. Which of course, according to you, means the better Go player really wants to lose as his/her end goal.
Giving someone an option != “would really like you to do that” != (with emphasis!) someone’s ‘end goal’
Spelling it out for you, to save you from potential future embarrassments.