I also think that current anti-attention asking norms came from Elephant in the brain esque anti-competition norms (the extreme version of everyone always being approved to ask for attention seems makes me think of dystopian future advertising, where the front of my house is plastered in adds).
Also agreeing with Benito that 1v1 long term relationship is a scenario I don’t want people to be penalized when asking for attention.
I also think that current anti-attention asking norms came from Elephant in the brain esque anti-competition norms (the extreme version of everyone always being approved to ask for attention seems makes me think of dystopian future advertising, where the front of my house is plastered in adds). Also agreeing with Benito that 1v1 long term relationship is a scenario I don’t want people to be penalized when asking for attention.