striving to avoid arousing emotions that will hinder updating beliefs and truth discovery
And otherwise being diplomatic where do you draw the line between that and motte-and-baileying them or otherwise being rhetorically manipulative?
When I’m talking with a view very different from my view, if I offer a watered down version of my view (that I still believe is true) so that there will be less inferential distance, am I being collaborative or deceptive? I fine this question particularly troublesome on the internet where it’s hard to build up a deep understanding of someone’s position.
Yeah, this is a tough one. I think the key is to share your intent with your collaborators. Use Tell Culture, explain your uncertainties and your desire to avoid triggering problematic emotions, and work with her/him to figure out the best path forward.
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And otherwise being diplomatic where do you draw the line between that and motte-and-baileying them or otherwise being rhetorically manipulative?
When I’m talking with a view very different from my view, if I offer a watered down version of my view (that I still believe is true) so that there will be less inferential distance, am I being collaborative or deceptive? I fine this question particularly troublesome on the internet where it’s hard to build up a deep understanding of someone’s position.
Yeah, this is a tough one. I think the key is to share your intent with your collaborators. Use Tell Culture, explain your uncertainties and your desire to avoid triggering problematic emotions, and work with her/him to figure out the best path forward.