Two roads diverged in the woods. I took the one less traveled, and...
Utopia: that has made all the difference.
Dystopia: had to eat bugs until Park rangers rescued me.
Wierdtopia: got to eat the bugs until the rangers threw me out.
For an example of a sexual wierdtopia, I’d recommend the movie zerophilia. Kinky, but not porn, and heck, my library has 2 copies.