If you haven’t been in a conversation, in a challenging project, and in bed with someone, you have absolutely no idea how attractive they really are.
Perhaps this is also obvious, but I want to just make sure we’re on the same page by mentioning that physical attractiveness is just one small part of overall attractiveness. Our culture emphasizes it a lot and I don’t think it does anyone any good to emphasize it more.
In my observations, overindexing on physical attractiveness causes heaps of trouble to everyone involved.
If you were just going to hop in bed and then go on your way, that overindexing and the type of conversation you described would make more sense. But you’re not going to do that almost ever, are you?
If you haven’t been in a conversation, in a challenging project, and in bed with someone, you have absolutely no idea how attractive they really are.
Perhaps this is also obvious, but I want to just make sure we’re on the same page by mentioning that physical attractiveness is just one small part of overall attractiveness. Our culture emphasizes it a lot and I don’t think it does anyone any good to emphasize it more.
In my observations, overindexing on physical attractiveness causes heaps of trouble to everyone involved.
If you were just going to hop in bed and then go on your way, that overindexing and the type of conversation you described would make more sense. But you’re not going to do that almost ever, are you?