One habit I worked hard to instill in my own head was that if I’m in a crowd that’s asked to do something, I silently count off three seconds. If nobody else responds, I either decide to do it or decide not to do it and I say that.
The “decide not to do it and I say that” is new to me and I like it. What I am currently sometimes doing is estimate how much I want to do the thing and throw a dice (via an RNG app).
The “decide not to do it and I say that” is new to me and I like it. What I am currently sometimes doing is estimate how much I want to do the thing and throw a dice (via an RNG app).