It seems like you are the one doing some kind of motte-and-bailey, given you made a post called “Wirehead your Chickens” arguing for wireheading chickens and having a rather dismissive tone towards the opposing side, and now you’re saying the real point was that negative utilitarian rhetoric is too emphasized compared to the moral systems which are actually used by EAs. (By the way, the prominence of negative utilitarian rhetoric is one of My Issues With EA Let Me Show You Them.)
Sorry about the miscommunication. Disengaging, since I do not find focusing on form over substance all that productive. I have accepted your criticism about the tone as valid.