As a former member of a lot of different “christian”(the quotes are there for a reason) churches I can only say: you hit the nail on the head! Btw, I’m not a member of any church nowadays.
If you get rid of the old outliers, the group position will shift, and someone else will become the oddball. If you eject them too, you’re well on the way to becoming a Bose-Einstein condensate and, er, exploding.
The real problem is that some group-leaders really want their groups to become BECs, with them at the center of control. So they will do all that is possible to eject dissenting voices. Alas, I speak from experience here.
As a former member of a lot of different “christian”(the quotes are there for a reason) churches I can only say: you hit the nail on the head! Btw, I’m not a member of any church nowadays.
If you get rid of the old outliers, the group position will shift, and someone else will become the oddball. If you eject them too, you’re well on the way to becoming a Bose-Einstein condensate and, er, exploding.
The real problem is that some group-leaders really want their groups to become BECs, with them at the center of control. So they will do all that is possible to eject dissenting voices. Alas, I speak from experience here.