I’ve only been on Mastodon a bit longer than the current Twitter immigrants, but as far as I know there’s no norm against linking. But the server admins are all a bit stressed by the increased load. So I can understand why they’d be annoyed by any link that brought new users. I’ve been holding off on inviting new users to the instance I’m on, because the server is only just coping as it is.
It sounds like that by other people linking without consent they received unwanted attention: “I realised that some people had cross-posted my Mastodon post into Twitter. … I struggled to understand what I was feeling, or the word to describe it. I finally realised on Monday that the word I was looking for was “traumatic”. In October I would have interacted regularly with perhaps a dozen people a week on Mastodon, across about 4 or 5 different servers. Suddenly having hundreds of people asking (or not) to join those conversations without having acclimatised themselves to the social norms felt like a violation, an assault.*
I guess what I’m trying to understand is whether Mastodon has some norm of “don’t bring attention to people’s writing without their consent”?
I’ve only been on Mastodon a bit longer than the current Twitter immigrants, but as far as I know there’s no norm against linking. But the server admins are all a bit stressed by the increased load. So I can understand why they’d be annoyed by any link that brought new users. I’ve been holding off on inviting new users to the instance I’m on, because the server is only just coping as it is.
It sounds like that by other people linking without consent they received unwanted attention: “I realised that some people had cross-posted my Mastodon post into Twitter. … I struggled to understand what I was feeling, or the word to describe it. I finally realised on Monday that the word I was looking for was “traumatic”. In October I would have interacted regularly with perhaps a dozen people a week on Mastodon, across about 4 or 5 different servers. Suddenly having hundreds of people asking (or not) to join those conversations without having acclimatised themselves to the social norms felt like a violation, an assault.*
I guess what I’m trying to understand is whether Mastodon has some norm of “don’t bring attention to people’s writing without their consent”?