Re: the first bit, all feedback was given in front of all the men and all the models. There weren’t really secrets about what the models thought and their brutality could be spectacular to witness. As could Lynn’s. Responses to guys at the end ranged from “you seem kinda like a child to me” to “you’re so anxious and i wish you could chill the fuck out” to “you seem really sexually inhibited and i think you should work on that” to “i really enjoyed working with you :)” to “you are the most insecure man I have ever met and need to learn to take any kind of criticism or you will never grow.”
Re: the second bit.… hmm. Yeah, I do sometimes wonder about this. Like, the problem with social anxiety is your social calibration is broken, and the problem with non-normies is they ALSO have broken social calibration but ALSO have poor baseline behaviors.
I have no idea how non-normies can train social grace.
ooh, just noticed this comment.
Re: the first bit, all feedback was given in front of all the men and all the models. There weren’t really secrets about what the models thought and their brutality could be spectacular to witness. As could Lynn’s. Responses to guys at the end ranged from “you seem kinda like a child to me” to “you’re so anxious and i wish you could chill the fuck out” to “you seem really sexually inhibited and i think you should work on that” to “i really enjoyed working with you :)” to “you are the most insecure man I have ever met and need to learn to take any kind of criticism or you will never grow.”
Re: the second bit.… hmm. Yeah, I do sometimes wonder about this. Like, the problem with social anxiety is your social calibration is broken, and the problem with non-normies is they ALSO have broken social calibration but ALSO have poor baseline behaviors.
I have no idea how non-normies can train social grace.