Quite a large proportion of my 1:1 arguments start when I express some low expectation of the other person’s argument being correct. This is almost always taken to mean that I believe that some opposing conclusion is correct. Usually I have to give up before being able to successfully communicate the distinction, let alone addressing the actual disagreement.
Corollary to Others are wrong != I am right (https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/4QemtxDFaGXyGSrGD/other-people-are-wrong-vs-i-am-right): It is far easier to convince me that I’m wrong than to convince me that you’re right.
Quite a large proportion of my 1:1 arguments start when I express some low expectation of the other person’s argument being correct. This is almost always taken to mean that I believe that some opposing conclusion is correct. Usually I have to give up before being able to successfully communicate the distinction, let alone addressing the actual disagreement.