The fact that young bi men are almost always closeted gay men, while old bi men are almost always closeted straight men, is particularly baffling.
I don’t find the first part baffling; there’s a trope that many gay men go through bisexuality on their way to accepting their homosexuality. (I had a brief period where I identified as bi because I wasn’t fully ready to identify as gay.)
I don’t find the first part baffling; there’s a trope that many gay men go through bisexuality on their way to accepting their homosexuality. (I had a brief period where I identified as bi because I wasn’t fully ready to identify as gay.)
Same. It’s easier to tell people that you have a left hand than it is to tell people you’re left-handed, so to speak.