As I read it this is an instance of or very closely related to taking the outside view though not by reflecting on how a neutral observer would see your thoughts but by ridiculing yourself.
For example I extended stereotypes about behaviour to myself: Of course you only need to use big words if your whole argument is to confuse the partner. Which made me realise that I use big words too much in everyday speech. Obviously the quality of an argument is independent of its presentation yet still the presentation matters.
Another example is when I wanted to change a specific behaviour with the same approach that failed in the past but this time it is different. The phrase “once a liar, always a liar” came to mind and I was motivated to try a different approach.
This one is fun. I think of it as self-caricaturing. Not trying to come up with a “straw man” exactly, but rather a comical/cynical oversimplification that still kinda fits. The goal is to compress it as much as possible while still having it be as accurate as possible. The more you can compress without losing much/the less nuances you lose, the more this self caricature tells you about yourself.
For example, I sometimes joke that I’m a redneck that doesn’t want to believe he’s a closeted hippie. It’s a quite lossy caricature, obviously, but every time I do something consistent with that caricature it gives me an opportunity to examine whether I’m merely doing the cached self thing or whether I can find the underlying heuristic (and notice whether it’s any good).
Another neat use is to signal that you’re self aware. People will try to fit you into their caricatures, and if you can lampshade this, they’ll perk up and listen for how you don’t fit this caricature. After all, if that’s exactly what you were, how could you be aware of how it looks and laughing about it?
I’m going to need some more examples, this sounds like it could be something but I’m not seeing how I could actually apply the concept to a situation.
As I read it this is an instance of or very closely related to taking the outside view though not by reflecting on how a neutral observer would see your thoughts but by ridiculing yourself.
For example I extended stereotypes about behaviour to myself: Of course you only need to use big words if your whole argument is to confuse the partner. Which made me realise that I use big words too much in everyday speech. Obviously the quality of an argument is independent of its presentation yet still the presentation matters.
Another example is when I wanted to change a specific behaviour with the same approach that failed in the past but this time it is different. The phrase “once a liar, always a liar” came to mind and I was motivated to try a different approach.
This one is fun. I think of it as self-caricaturing. Not trying to come up with a “straw man” exactly, but rather a comical/cynical oversimplification that still kinda fits. The goal is to compress it as much as possible while still having it be as accurate as possible. The more you can compress without losing much/the less nuances you lose, the more this self caricature tells you about yourself.
For example, I sometimes joke that I’m a redneck that doesn’t want to believe he’s a closeted hippie. It’s a quite lossy caricature, obviously, but every time I do something consistent with that caricature it gives me an opportunity to examine whether I’m merely doing the cached self thing or whether I can find the underlying heuristic (and notice whether it’s any good).
Another neat use is to signal that you’re self aware. People will try to fit you into their caricatures, and if you can lampshade this, they’ll perk up and listen for how you don’t fit this caricature. After all, if that’s exactly what you were, how could you be aware of how it looks and laughing about it?