It also alienates me that people here, according to the karma distributions, don’t seem to get my point.
I downvoted you. I got your “point”. I found it concern-trolling at worst, and irrelevant at best, with a dose of error tossed into the mix.
Oh no, somebody dared to say something without putting a qualifier in the front to make explicit a fact that we all understand, that this is what -they think-. That’s why he’s writing it, and your protest at the absence of weasel-words is nonsense, a rationalization for your statement, and a blanket refusal to admit to the fact that you might have been wrong.
Your protest at being “alienated” by the fact that people didn’t upvote you as much as the person who disagreed with you makes it worse, because you imply you’re obligated some level of karma balance with those who disagree with you. I say this, knowing for a fact it may get me downvoted, but I have enough honesty of self not to care: Fuck your entitlement. Grow up, become an adult, and realize that nobody is obligated to upvote you, regardless of what effect it might have on your feelings. That’s not what the upvote/downvote system is for, and you’re not a victim because half the people, including myself, who read your post felt that Less Wrong could use -less- of the kind of thing you wrote.
This comment seems aggressive and rude, so I doubt it will be persuasive to Lukas. As Yvain wrote in How To Not Lose An Argument, we should beware of status effects during arguments. If Lukas agrees with you now, then Lukas agrees he is a weasel-word-using rationalizing entitled infantile fake-victim, which is very difficult to accept. Without the insults, Lukas would have had the opportunity to make an easier update—that he misunderstood, or the text was unclear, or that he’d prefer Dias to have clarified but reasonable people could disagree, or something like that.
Yvain makes the mistake of believing that the person he is arguing with is the person he is convincing.
I’m not interested in convincing Lukas of anything. My target is the audience, who I’m not arguing with, but negotiating with.
Observe the neutral karma score of my rude comment, at least as of now—it might change, as I reveal something: Had I been so rude to somebody else in different circumstances, it would have been deeply negative. Lukas lost considerable status by complaining about being downvoted, and half the participating audience is happy to upvote me for targeting somebody who has thus earned a lowered status. Those who downvote largely agree with the status assessment, but, like you, disagree with my behavior.
Everybody who upvoted my rude comment, or was tempted to? I was acting like a bully of an approved low-status target—and you approved. Chew on that. (And observe your cognitive dissonance, as you rationalize that being a bully might be appropriate in some circumstances, given the right target.)
Observe the neutral karma score of my rude comment, at least as of now … Everybody who upvoted my rude comment, or was tempted to? …
Now I’m almost sorry I didn’t see your comment while it had neutral karma. I believe I wouldn’t have upvoted it, but that’s exactly the kind of judgement I don’t trust.
Okay, I generally have a rule to never upvote comments that speak about their own karma (“it may get me downvoted”), so at least that would have stopped me, if nothing else.
Lukas’ karma for the comment I responded to was quite negative when mine was neutral, as well (down to −5 at one point, if my memory serves me well, which is an iffy prospect). By turning Lukas into the underdog in this conversation (by identifying myself as a bully), I’ve changed people’s perceptions of his comment, as well.
That part wasn’t intentional, but in retrospect, it should have been an obvious side effect.
I actually inserted the “it may get me downvoted” as a signal, although I don’t recall what the purpose of the signal was, and it’s not obvious to me now. Pity.
What exactly is the point you are making here? If you disapprove of your own behavior, you should apologize to Lukas. If you don’t disapprove of it, then if you are right, people might not be rationalizing if they conclude that being a bully might be appropriate in some cases.
Didn’t I just say I was negotiating, rather than arguing? Quit looking for a point. Look instead for a purpose.
In one comment, I leverage a petty form of darks arts, with no karma penalty to myself, and a hefty cost to the person I targeted. In the next, I call myself out for doing so, and those who fell for it as well—with a pretty hefty karma penalty.
I’ll dryly observe the amusement I find in a community which purports to be about becoming stronger getting rather huffy about having their weaknesses revealed to them. Which might suggest some of my purpose.
Maybe I’m wrong, but my guess is that if someone wrote “Life is neutral; some states are worse than death, and adding new happy people is nice but not important”, that person would be called out, and the post would receive a large portion of downvotes. I’m not sure about the downvotes (personally I didn’t even downvote the OP), but I think pointing out the somewhat controversial nature of such a blanket statement is definitely a good thing. Would you oppose this as well (similarly aggressively)?
We could talk about whether my view of what’s controversial or not is biased. I would not object to someone saying “Murder is bad” without prefacing it with “Personally, I think”, even though I’m sure most uncontrolled AIs will disagree with this for reasons I cannot find any faults in. But assuming that we’re indeed talking about an issue where there’s no consensus among EAs, then to me it seems epistemically appropriate to at least hint at this lack of consensus, just like you do when you talk about a scientific hypothesis that is controversial among experts. And it makes even more sense to hint at this, if some people don’t even realize that there’s a lack of consensus. For whatever reason, EAs that came to EA through LW care much more about preventing death than EAs that found to EA through e.g. Peter Singer’s books. And I thought it might be interesting to LW-originating EAs that a significant fraction of EAs “from elsewhere” feel alienated by the way some issues are being discussed on LW. Whether they give a shit about it is a different question of course.
See, the issue is that you think the downvotes were because of your views. I can’t speak for other people, but I downvoted you because you were engaging in behaviors I prefer to discourage; namely, ignoring the substantive thrust of a post to nitpick at a relatively insignificant comment made in the middle whose absence wouldn’t affect the post as a whole. And, as we see here, you made that comment not because it was substantive or seriously detracted from the post, but because it was an ideological matter with which you disagreed with the author. Hence my comment to you: “I found it concern-trolling at worst, and irrelevant at best”.
Because, as Dagon pointed out, using your criteria, the progress is -still- a positive thing. That’s the point of this post. Taking it as an opportunity to try to start an ideological fight is just bad manners.
See, downvotes here don’t mean Less Wrong disagrees with you (although that’s how some people use it, it’s not the cultural standard). Downvotes mean people want to see less of the kind of post/comment that was downvoted.
I honestly don’t give a tinker’s cuss about the intra-movement arguments within EA, and if this is how EA behaves, I’d like to see less of it as a whole. You’re not representing your movement very well.
you made that comment not because it was substantive or seriously detracted from the post, but because it was an ideological matter with which you disagreed with the author
I generally dislike it when people talk about moral views that way, even if they mention views I support. I might be less inclined to call it out in a case where I intuitively strongly agree, but I still do it some of the time. I agree it wasn’t the main point of his post, I never denied that. In fact I wrote that I agree the developments are impressive. By that, I meant the graphs. Since when is it discouraged to point out minor criticism in a post? The fact that I singled out this particular post to make a comment that would maybe fit just as well elsewhere just happens to be a coincidence.
Taking it as an opportunity to try to start an ideological fight is just bad manners.
No one is even talking about arguments or intuition-pumps for or against any of the moral views mentioned. I wasn’t “starting an ideological flight”, I was making meta remark about the way people present moral views. If anything, I’d be starting an ideological fight about my metaethical views and what I consider to be a productive norm of value-related discourse on this site.
Since when is it discouraged to point out minor criticism in a post?
Again, I wasn’t speaking for all of Less Wrong. You’d have to ask the others why they downvoted you, but having committed the major faux pax of complaining about being downvoted, I don’t think they’ll be as receptive at this point.
I discourage anything that relates to pedantry, downvote whenever somebody is making a point, not because the point needs to be heard, but because they need to be heard. There’s some subjectivity to it, of course. But it boils down to “Do I find that this comment adds, or detracts, from the meaningful conversation that can be had?” And I found yours to detract more than it added, for reasons already specified.
There’s also more than a slight smell of identity politics to the way you’re approaching this, particularly in the way you immediately threw yourself into the “Victim” role as soon as you perceived you weren’t being treated with the gravity you expected. That might be an avenue for you to consider. Identity politics don’t go over well here.
I downvoted you. I got your “point”. I found it concern-trolling at worst, and irrelevant at best, with a dose of error tossed into the mix.
Oh no, somebody dared to say something without putting a qualifier in the front to make explicit a fact that we all understand, that this is what -they think-. That’s why he’s writing it, and your protest at the absence of weasel-words is nonsense, a rationalization for your statement, and a blanket refusal to admit to the fact that you might have been wrong.
Your protest at being “alienated” by the fact that people didn’t upvote you as much as the person who disagreed with you makes it worse, because you imply you’re obligated some level of karma balance with those who disagree with you. I say this, knowing for a fact it may get me downvoted, but I have enough honesty of self not to care: Fuck your entitlement. Grow up, become an adult, and realize that nobody is obligated to upvote you, regardless of what effect it might have on your feelings. That’s not what the upvote/downvote system is for, and you’re not a victim because half the people, including myself, who read your post felt that Less Wrong could use -less- of the kind of thing you wrote.
This comment seems aggressive and rude, so I doubt it will be persuasive to Lukas. As Yvain wrote in How To Not Lose An Argument, we should beware of status effects during arguments. If Lukas agrees with you now, then Lukas agrees he is a weasel-word-using rationalizing entitled infantile fake-victim, which is very difficult to accept. Without the insults, Lukas would have had the opportunity to make an easier update—that he misunderstood, or the text was unclear, or that he’d prefer Dias to have clarified but reasonable people could disagree, or something like that.
Yvain makes the mistake of believing that the person he is arguing with is the person he is convincing.
I’m not interested in convincing Lukas of anything. My target is the audience, who I’m not arguing with, but negotiating with.
Observe the neutral karma score of my rude comment, at least as of now—it might change, as I reveal something: Had I been so rude to somebody else in different circumstances, it would have been deeply negative. Lukas lost considerable status by complaining about being downvoted, and half the participating audience is happy to upvote me for targeting somebody who has thus earned a lowered status. Those who downvote largely agree with the status assessment, but, like you, disagree with my behavior.
Everybody who upvoted my rude comment, or was tempted to? I was acting like a bully of an approved low-status target—and you approved. Chew on that. (And observe your cognitive dissonance, as you rationalize that being a bully might be appropriate in some circumstances, given the right target.)
Now I’m almost sorry I didn’t see your comment while it had neutral karma. I believe I wouldn’t have upvoted it, but that’s exactly the kind of judgement I don’t trust.
Okay, I generally have a rule to never upvote comments that speak about their own karma (“it may get me downvoted”), so at least that would have stopped me, if nothing else.
Anyway… such drama… so meta… wow
Lukas’ karma for the comment I responded to was quite negative when mine was neutral, as well (down to −5 at one point, if my memory serves me well, which is an iffy prospect). By turning Lukas into the underdog in this conversation (by identifying myself as a bully), I’ve changed people’s perceptions of his comment, as well.
That part wasn’t intentional, but in retrospect, it should have been an obvious side effect.
I actually inserted the “it may get me downvoted” as a signal, although I don’t recall what the purpose of the signal was, and it’s not obvious to me now. Pity.
What exactly is the point you are making here? If you disapprove of your own behavior, you should apologize to Lukas. If you don’t disapprove of it, then if you are right, people might not be rationalizing if they conclude that being a bully might be appropriate in some cases.
Didn’t I just say I was negotiating, rather than arguing? Quit looking for a point. Look instead for a purpose.
In one comment, I leverage a petty form of darks arts, with no karma penalty to myself, and a hefty cost to the person I targeted. In the next, I call myself out for doing so, and those who fell for it as well—with a pretty hefty karma penalty.
I’ll dryly observe the amusement I find in a community which purports to be about becoming stronger getting rather huffy about having their weaknesses revealed to them. Which might suggest some of my purpose.
Maybe I’m wrong, but my guess is that if someone wrote “Life is neutral; some states are worse than death, and adding new happy people is nice but not important”, that person would be called out, and the post would receive a large portion of downvotes. I’m not sure about the downvotes (personally I didn’t even downvote the OP), but I think pointing out the somewhat controversial nature of such a blanket statement is definitely a good thing. Would you oppose this as well (similarly aggressively)?
We could talk about whether my view of what’s controversial or not is biased. I would not object to someone saying “Murder is bad” without prefacing it with “Personally, I think”, even though I’m sure most uncontrolled AIs will disagree with this for reasons I cannot find any faults in. But assuming that we’re indeed talking about an issue where there’s no consensus among EAs, then to me it seems epistemically appropriate to at least hint at this lack of consensus, just like you do when you talk about a scientific hypothesis that is controversial among experts. And it makes even more sense to hint at this, if some people don’t even realize that there’s a lack of consensus. For whatever reason, EAs that came to EA through LW care much more about preventing death than EAs that found to EA through e.g. Peter Singer’s books. And I thought it might be interesting to LW-originating EAs that a significant fraction of EAs “from elsewhere” feel alienated by the way some issues are being discussed on LW. Whether they give a shit about it is a different question of course.
See, the issue is that you think the downvotes were because of your views. I can’t speak for other people, but I downvoted you because you were engaging in behaviors I prefer to discourage; namely, ignoring the substantive thrust of a post to nitpick at a relatively insignificant comment made in the middle whose absence wouldn’t affect the post as a whole. And, as we see here, you made that comment not because it was substantive or seriously detracted from the post, but because it was an ideological matter with which you disagreed with the author. Hence my comment to you: “I found it concern-trolling at worst, and irrelevant at best”.
Because, as Dagon pointed out, using your criteria, the progress is -still- a positive thing. That’s the point of this post. Taking it as an opportunity to try to start an ideological fight is just bad manners.
See, downvotes here don’t mean Less Wrong disagrees with you (although that’s how some people use it, it’s not the cultural standard). Downvotes mean people want to see less of the kind of post/comment that was downvoted.
I honestly don’t give a tinker’s cuss about the intra-movement arguments within EA, and if this is how EA behaves, I’d like to see less of it as a whole. You’re not representing your movement very well.
I generally dislike it when people talk about moral views that way, even if they mention views I support. I might be less inclined to call it out in a case where I intuitively strongly agree, but I still do it some of the time. I agree it wasn’t the main point of his post, I never denied that. In fact I wrote that I agree the developments are impressive. By that, I meant the graphs. Since when is it discouraged to point out minor criticism in a post? The fact that I singled out this particular post to make a comment that would maybe fit just as well elsewhere just happens to be a coincidence.
No one is even talking about arguments or intuition-pumps for or against any of the moral views mentioned. I wasn’t “starting an ideological flight”, I was making meta remark about the way people present moral views. If anything, I’d be starting an ideological fight about my metaethical views and what I consider to be a productive norm of value-related discourse on this site.
Again, I wasn’t speaking for all of Less Wrong. You’d have to ask the others why they downvoted you, but having committed the major faux pax of complaining about being downvoted, I don’t think they’ll be as receptive at this point.
I discourage anything that relates to pedantry, downvote whenever somebody is making a point, not because the point needs to be heard, but because they need to be heard. There’s some subjectivity to it, of course. But it boils down to “Do I find that this comment adds, or detracts, from the meaningful conversation that can be had?” And I found yours to detract more than it added, for reasons already specified.
There’s also more than a slight smell of identity politics to the way you’re approaching this, particularly in the way you immediately threw yourself into the “Victim” role as soon as you perceived you weren’t being treated with the gravity you expected. That might be an avenue for you to consider. Identity politics don’t go over well here.