Controlling is especially toxic when applied to the self-model of another person, Non-Violent Communication’s ability to defuse conflict comes mostly from requiring people to talk in a way which makes making control-statements about the other’s self model or unobservable variables difficult.
Controlling is especially toxic when applied to the self-model of another person, Non-Violent Communication’s ability to defuse conflict comes mostly from requiring people to talk in a way which makes making control-statements about the other’s self model or unobservable variables difficult.