indeed, many are fearful of themselves and would rather sit pretty while the effigy of their public representation burns. The courageous approach is to expose oneself without obfuscation. Speaking with vibes and vagueness is another way people employ their effigies so that they can easily escape criticism by using their uncertainty to their advantage.
Many times the case for ‘vibieness’ in social settings is to maintain social standing or larp it in cruder terms. It allows people to disguise their lack of knowledge while still being involved in the conversation, but how meaningful said conversation is if you are unable to meaningfully contribute is questionable.
And irregardless putting yourself out there, staying true to what you say and accepting mistakes as they come is somewhat non-trivial at least for me. It would be great if people such as myself can learn to do this!
indeed, many are fearful of themselves and would rather sit pretty while the effigy of their public representation burns. The courageous approach is to expose oneself without obfuscation. Speaking with vibes and vagueness is another way people employ their effigies so that they can easily escape criticism by using their uncertainty to their advantage.
Many times the case for ‘vibieness’ in social settings is to maintain social standing or larp it in cruder terms. It allows people to disguise their lack of knowledge while still being involved in the conversation, but how meaningful said conversation is if you are unable to meaningfully contribute is questionable.
And irregardless putting yourself out there, staying true to what you say and accepting mistakes as they come is somewhat non-trivial at least for me. It would be great if people such as myself can learn to do this!