Poly seems ubiquitous enough among people I know (mostly young, techies, living in the Bay Area or otherwise with some connection to it) that it’s hard for me to even keep track of which people I know are poly or have been in poly relationships.
My general sense is that things often go well, sometimes go badly, but when they go badly poly is usually not the main reason (but sometimes it’s an aggravating factor.) When things do go well, you’re less likely to hear about it than when they go badly, too.
I also know several people who seem to have had poly phases at one time or another, but now seem to be practicing-monogamists; as well as at least one poly person who went through a monogamy phase (for a partner) but couldn’t deal in the end and is back to poly.
Poly seems ubiquitous enough among people I know (mostly young, techies, living in the Bay Area or otherwise with some connection to it) that it’s hard for me to even keep track of which people I know are poly or have been in poly relationships.
My general sense is that things often go well, sometimes go badly, but when they go badly poly is usually not the main reason (but sometimes it’s an aggravating factor.) When things do go well, you’re less likely to hear about it than when they go badly, too.
I also know several people who seem to have had poly phases at one time or another, but now seem to be practicing-monogamists; as well as at least one poly person who went through a monogamy phase (for a partner) but couldn’t deal in the end and is back to poly.