I don’t enjoy it, to be sure, but I also don’t enjoy soda or warm weather or chess or the sound of vacuum cleaners, and it seems that it would be a different thing entirely to claim that these things are bad. Most people don’t enjoy pain, but most people also don’t enjoy lutefisk or rock climbing or musical theater or having sex with a member of the same sex, and it seems like a different claim to hold that lutefisk and rock climbing and musical theater and gay sex are bad. And it’s just not the case that all people don’t enjoy pain, so that’s an immediate dead end.
We don’t classify lutefisk or rock-climbing or musical theater or gay sex as “bad” because people can choose to indulge in them if they like them, and forego them if they don’t like them. If lutefisk (for example) just forced itself on random people who neither wanted nor needed it, and refused to go away, and even made some particularly unfortunate people’s lives so terrible that they wanted to die, I think we’d all be pretty comfortable classifying it as “bad”.
We don’t classify lutefisk or rock-climbing or musical theater or gay sex as “bad” because people can choose to indulge in them if they like them, and forego them if they don’t like them. If lutefisk (for example) just forced itself on random people who neither wanted nor needed it, and refused to go away, and even made some particularly unfortunate people’s lives so terrible that they wanted to die, I think we’d all be pretty comfortable classifying it as “bad”.