do something special that will make you stand out of the crowd.
To increase the chance of meeting the right person:
figure out what kind of person you actually want to be with,
meet a lot of people,
especially at places where the-kind-of-person-you-want is more likely to be.
This is the outline. Maybe I forgot a few important things. A lot could be said about each point. And of course, all of that is easier said than done.
The part about problems depends a lot on what specific problems you have. The advice for getting fit is different from the advice for developing social skills, which is different from financial advice.
Your chance of success is P × N, where P is probability of success with one random person, and N is the number of people you meet. If your P is too close to zero, you have to work on that. But when it becomes sufficiently nonzero, your success becomes proportional to the number of people you meet. (Don’t make the mistake of staying fixated on one specific person who rejected you. There are over 7 billion people on Earth.)
You need to:
make yourself more attractive,
increase the chance of meeting the right person.
To make yourself more attractive:
fix the obvious problems,
improve yourself, generally,
do something special that will make you stand out of the crowd.
To increase the chance of meeting the right person:
figure out what kind of person you actually want to be with,
meet a lot of people,
especially at places where the-kind-of-person-you-want is more likely to be.
This is the outline. Maybe I forgot a few important things. A lot could be said about each point. And of course, all of that is easier said than done.
The part about problems depends a lot on what specific problems you have. The advice for getting fit is different from the advice for developing social skills, which is different from financial advice.
Your chance of success is P × N, where P is probability of success with one random person, and N is the number of people you meet. If your P is too close to zero, you have to work on that. But when it becomes sufficiently nonzero, your success becomes proportional to the number of people you meet. (Don’t make the mistake of staying fixated on one specific person who rejected you. There are over 7 billion people on Earth.)