My hypothesis: in the first thread, you were talking about personal experience and looking for something akin to Feeling Rational, and so people (rightly) focused on being supportive over theorizing. The second thread was phrased in a way that invited theorizing, and being analyzed from outside always feels like an attack.
My hypothesis: in the first thread, you were talking about personal experience and looking for something akin to Feeling Rational, and so people (rightly) focused on being supportive over theorizing. The second thread was phrased in a way that invited theorizing, and being analyzed from outside always feels like an attack.