I would say that is approximately correct—I read “pseudofamiliarity” as the tone you would take with an amicable acquaintance. Not as free as the way you would talk to a close personal friend, but lighthearted.
Alicorn is not an amicable acquaintance, and she has found conversation with you in the past uncomfortable. Even granting that you have the right to address her remarks without engaging her specifically, the jocular tone of your initial remark assumed a (pseudo)familiarity in your relationship which was not present.
I read “pseudofamiliarity” as the tone you would take with an amicable acquaintance.
(Or an acquaintance who is openly a rival, where it is a minor display of dominance and a signal to others that you don’t need to consider them a threat. Not that I think it applies here.)
That’s not surprising—posts where one is inclined to use smilies are at least pseudofamiliar.
(And—I apologize for interjecting with advice—given that Alicorn does not like you, if you are replying to her in such a tone that you would consider using smilies, you are probably being overly familiar. Jocularity is probably appropriate in other situations, though.)
(...but I would advise against cutting remarks like the one which set off this thread.)
I would say that is approximately correct—I read “pseudofamiliarity” as the tone you would take with an amicable acquaintance. Not as free as the way you would talk to a close personal friend, but lighthearted.
Alicorn is not an amicable acquaintance, and she has found conversation with you in the past uncomfortable. Even granting that you have the right to address her remarks without engaging her specifically, the jocular tone of your initial remark assumed a (pseudo)familiarity in your relationship which was not present.
(Or an acquaintance who is openly a rival, where it is a minor display of dominance and a signal to others that you don’t need to consider them a threat. Not that I think it applies here.)
Okay, that makes sense. I do use a lot of smilies, just to make sure the intent is clear.
That’s not surprising—posts where one is inclined to use smilies are at least pseudofamiliar.
(And—I apologize for interjecting with advice—given that Alicorn does not like you, if you are replying to her in such a tone that you would consider using smilies, you are probably being overly familiar. Jocularity is probably appropriate in other situations, though.)
(...but I would advise against cutting remarks like the one which set off this thread.)