There is a difference between being able to achieve your goals in the outside world, and being able to maintain your individual sovereignty.
“Getting what you want” (in the former category) is different from, say, “being safe” (in the latter category).
Also, some things might feel like “big deals” when they’re actually misinterpretations (because maybe it’s something you actually couldn’t control anyway, or actually shouldn’t care about for other reasons)
You die or otherwise become controlled, lose your sovereignty, lose your ability to make your decisions.
Peeking at the next post, I would also add:
There is a difference between being able to achieve your goals in the outside world, and being able to maintain your individual sovereignty.
“Getting what you want” (in the former category) is different from, say, “being safe” (in the latter category).
Also, some things might feel like “big deals” when they’re actually misinterpretations (because maybe it’s something you actually couldn’t control anyway, or actually shouldn’t care about for other reasons)