Those are both valid arguments. They also combine to create a third: parenting completely changes your priorities in life, giving you new perspective, drives, and goals that make those things you were doing in 20′s and 30′s that seemed so much more important than having kids actually feel like a waste of time in retrospect. And you wonder why you didn’t start earlier.
Those are both valid arguments. They also combine to create a third: parenting completely changes your priorities in life, giving you new perspective, drives, and goals that make those things you were doing in 20′s and 30′s that seemed so much more important than having kids actually feel like a waste of time in retrospect. And you wonder why you didn’t start earlier.