Re: sex… is there anyone with whom you’re already having great awesome sex who would be willing to help out with some desensitization? For example, adding role-playing “our first time” to your repertoire? If not, how would you feel about hiring sex workers for this purpose?
Re: lifestyle… list the novel factors (dancing 4 hrs/night, spending time with people rather than alone, sleeping <7 hrs/night, diet changes, etc. etc. etc.). When you’re back home, identify the ones that are easy to introduce and experiment with introducing them, one at a time, for a week. If you don’t see a benefit, move on to the next one. If none of them work, try them all at once. If that doesn’t work, move on to the difficult-to-introduce ones and repeat the process.
Personally, I would guess that several hours of sustained exercise and a different diet are the primary factors, but that’s just a guess.
re: sex
Not at the moment, but in some 2 months that roleplaying stuff would be possible yes. I tried looking for some affect hacking on the website but didn’t find much practical advice unfortunately.
wrt to sex workers, no great moral objection, besides and initial emotional ugh, but I’m unsure on how helpful it could be.
re: lifestyle
this is somewhat what I had in mind, thank you.
Re: sex… is there anyone with whom you’re already having great awesome sex who would be willing to help out with some desensitization? For example, adding role-playing “our first time” to your repertoire? If not, how would you feel about hiring sex workers for this purpose?
Re: lifestyle… list the novel factors (dancing 4 hrs/night, spending time with people rather than alone, sleeping <7 hrs/night, diet changes, etc. etc. etc.). When you’re back home, identify the ones that are easy to introduce and experiment with introducing them, one at a time, for a week. If you don’t see a benefit, move on to the next one. If none of them work, try them all at once. If that doesn’t work, move on to the difficult-to-introduce ones and repeat the process.
Personally, I would guess that several hours of sustained exercise and a different diet are the primary factors, but that’s just a guess.
re: sex Not at the moment, but in some 2 months that roleplaying stuff would be possible yes. I tried looking for some affect hacking on the website but didn’t find much practical advice unfortunately.
wrt to sex workers, no great moral objection, besides and initial emotional ugh, but I’m unsure on how helpful it could be.
re: lifestyle this is somewhat what I had in mind, thank you.