The ham sandwich replacement works pretty well in my head, I don’t understand the Olympic medal analogy, and the lottery tickets thing is confusing to me. I agree people can be mistaken about what they want (though I don’t default to assuming that) and I’m confused what you think a lot of people actually want and mistake for wanting to be happy? We seem to have some kind of communication problem or alternately pretty different experiences of happiness, and I’m not sure what’s going on here. I’m glad we’re on the same page about thinking by the clock and being strategic at least.
I’m going to try zooming way way out, and dropping any particular technique (mine or from the book.) Can you tell me where in these sequence you start to disagree, or alternately if you agree with all of the below?
Happiness is some kind of state humans can be in, and they can notice when they’re happy or unhappy if they check. (I’m not trying to argue definitions of emotion vs sensation, I’m not trying to split too many hairs between joy vs happiness.)
Happiness is a state humans can prefer to be in. I have no idea what the actual numbers are here and I don’t think it matters for this sequence, if I go up to one human and ask “hey do you want to be happy?” and they think for a minute before honestly and accurately saying “yes” then I think the rest of this sequence works for that one person. (I do think this describes a lot of people though.)
Some kind of repeatable, particular circumstances predictably make a human happier and others unhappier. Put me on a sunny beach with a new book and a lemonade, I’ll be more happy. Hang me upside down by my ankles and dump fire ants down my shorts, I’ll be less happy. (It’s fine if different circumstances make different humans react differently, for instance if I like beaches and Anakin hates sand. It’s also fine if this isn’t 100% certain like if some days I’m not in the mood for a book as long as it’s enough of a pattern to work with.)
People can, through introspection and effort, arrange the world such that they wind up in the happy circumstances more often. This evening I could put lemonade and a book in my backpack and go to the beach, or I could lie facedown on my basement floor, or I could bring some rope and find an anthill. (List not exhaustive.)
Things I am not saying:
People shouldn’t aim for goals other than being happy.
People should optimize for being happy all of the time.
What makes me happy will make you happy or vice versa.
People are always right about what will make them happy.
Each individual step towards being happy will also make someone happy.
The ham sandwich replacement works pretty well in my head, I don’t understand the Olympic medal analogy, and the lottery tickets thing is confusing to me. I agree people can be mistaken about what they want (though I don’t default to assuming that) and I’m confused what you think a lot of people actually want and mistake for wanting to be happy? We seem to have some kind of communication problem or alternately pretty different experiences of happiness, and I’m not sure what’s going on here.
Huh. Yeah, this amount of communication failure surprises me. I did expect that you’d disagree with at least some of that, but not that it wouldn’t get across at all…
Can you tell me where in these sequence you start to disagree, or alternately if you agree with all of the below?
I disagree with #1, partially disagree with #2 (the first sentence is ok-ish but the given test is basically meaningless and so can’t be the basis for any of this reasoning), basically agree with #3, and agree with what #4 says but almost certainly not with what you mean by it. (I also—obviously—disagree with the notion that these things form some kind of meaningful sequence of specificity or claim strength etc.)
Things I am not saying:
Sure, I didn’t think that you were saying any of those things, so this all makes sense.
Okay, let me try starting from before that point then.
There’s a bunch of things commonly referred to as emotions. Happiness is one. Anger is another. Sadness is a third. This list is not exhaustive but there’s lots of lists of emotions, here’s one.
Have you ever felt any of these, such that you could say “gosh, I’m really angry right now” as a fact about the world?
basically agree with #3, and agree with what #4 says but almost certainly not with what you mean by it. (I also—obviously—disagree with the notion that these things form some kind of meaningful sequence of specificity or claim strength etc.)
- wait. You don’t think happiness is a thing that people can notice about themselves, but you do think there’s some kind of circumstance that makes a particular person happy? Like, I could go to the beach, and I would be happy, but I couldn’t notice that fact? I put them in that order because I assumed if you were going to disagree with one of them you’d also disagree with all the ones after, so I’m pretty surprised here.
I think many of the things on that list are not emotions. (I mean, surely “creative” is not an emotion? “Respected”? “Intimate”? “Exposed”? “Sceptical”? “Judgmental”??)
Have you ever felt any of these, such that you could say “gosh, I’m really angry right now” as a fact about the world?
Of course.
You don’t think happiness is a thing that people can notice about themselves, but you do think there’s some kind of circumstance that makes a particular person happy? Like, I could go to the beach, and I would be happy, but I couldn’t notice that fact? I put them in that order because I assumed if you were going to disagree with one of them you’d also disagree with all the ones after, so I’m pretty surprised here.
You wrote (#1):
Happiness is some kind of state humans can be in, and they can notice when they’re happy or unhappy if they check.
I think that thinking of happiness as a “state” is basically a mistake even if there’s some technical sense in which it’s true. I also do not think that people are very good at noticing whether they’re happy or unhappy. I wouldn’t go so far as to say “can’t” but it’s not like checking whether you’re angry (which usually has relatively standard and straightforwardly checkable physiological correlates). I expect that the average person asking “am I happy right now” is more likely than not to get a wrong or nonsensical answer.
You also wrote (#2):
Happiness is a state humans can prefer to be in.
As above, I don’t think that happiness is a “state” in a useful sense of the word, but I do think that humans can (and most, probably, do) prefer to be happy rather than not being happy.
And (#3):
Some kind of repeatable, particular circumstances predictably make a human happier and others unhappier.
Yep, generally true. One can quibble with this (e.g. the caveats that you give in parentheses), but as a basic pattern it is true.
But:
You don’t think happiness is a thing that people can notice about themselves, but you do think there’s some kind of circumstance that makes a particular person happy?
Ah, but notice the difference: “make a person happier” vs. “make a person happy”. The latter makes sense if happiness is just an emotional state that one can be in. But if that’s not right—if happiness is more like a characteristic of a person’s experience over time, for example—then the latter form doesn’t make much sense anymore. But the former makes sense either way.
The ham sandwich replacement works pretty well in my head, I don’t understand the Olympic medal analogy, and the lottery tickets thing is confusing to me. I agree people can be mistaken about what they want (though I don’t default to assuming that) and I’m confused what you think a lot of people actually want and mistake for wanting to be happy? We seem to have some kind of communication problem or alternately pretty different experiences of happiness, and I’m not sure what’s going on here. I’m glad we’re on the same page about thinking by the clock and being strategic at least.
I’m going to try zooming way way out, and dropping any particular technique (mine or from the book.) Can you tell me where in these sequence you start to disagree, or alternately if you agree with all of the below?
Happiness is some kind of state humans can be in, and they can notice when they’re happy or unhappy if they check. (I’m not trying to argue definitions of emotion vs sensation, I’m not trying to split too many hairs between joy vs happiness.)
Happiness is a state humans can prefer to be in. I have no idea what the actual numbers are here and I don’t think it matters for this sequence, if I go up to one human and ask “hey do you want to be happy?” and they think for a minute before honestly and accurately saying “yes” then I think the rest of this sequence works for that one person. (I do think this describes a lot of people though.)
Some kind of repeatable, particular circumstances predictably make a human happier and others unhappier. Put me on a sunny beach with a new book and a lemonade, I’ll be more happy. Hang me upside down by my ankles and dump fire ants down my shorts, I’ll be less happy. (It’s fine if different circumstances make different humans react differently, for instance if I like beaches and Anakin hates sand. It’s also fine if this isn’t 100% certain like if some days I’m not in the mood for a book as long as it’s enough of a pattern to work with.)
People can, through introspection and effort, arrange the world such that they wind up in the happy circumstances more often. This evening I could put lemonade and a book in my backpack and go to the beach, or I could lie facedown on my basement floor, or I could bring some rope and find an anthill. (List not exhaustive.)
Things I am not saying:
People shouldn’t aim for goals other than being happy.
People should optimize for being happy all of the time.
What makes me happy will make you happy or vice versa.
People are always right about what will make them happy.
Each individual step towards being happy will also make someone happy.
Huh. Yeah, this amount of communication failure surprises me. I did expect that you’d disagree with at least some of that, but not that it wouldn’t get across at all…
I disagree with #1, partially disagree with #2 (the first sentence is ok-ish but the given test is basically meaningless and so can’t be the basis for any of this reasoning), basically agree with #3, and agree with what #4 says but almost certainly not with what you mean by it. (I also—obviously—disagree with the notion that these things form some kind of meaningful sequence of specificity or claim strength etc.)
Sure, I didn’t think that you were saying any of those things, so this all makes sense.
Okay, let me try starting from before that point then.
There’s a bunch of things commonly referred to as emotions. Happiness is one. Anger is another. Sadness is a third. This list is not exhaustive but there’s lots of lists of emotions, here’s one.
Have you ever felt any of these, such that you could say “gosh, I’m really angry right now” as a fact about the world?
- wait. You don’t think happiness is a thing that people can notice about themselves, but you do think there’s some kind of circumstance that makes a particular person happy? Like, I could go to the beach, and I would be happy, but I couldn’t notice that fact? I put them in that order because I assumed if you were going to disagree with one of them you’d also disagree with all the ones after, so I’m pretty surprised here.
I do not agree with this.
(But if you consider happiness to be an emotion, then it makes even less sense to optimize for it!)
I think many of the things on that list are not emotions. (I mean, surely “creative” is not an emotion? “Respected”? “Intimate”? “Exposed”? “Sceptical”? “Judgmental”??)
Of course.
You wrote (#1):
I think that thinking of happiness as a “state” is basically a mistake even if there’s some technical sense in which it’s true. I also do not think that people are very good at noticing whether they’re happy or unhappy. I wouldn’t go so far as to say “can’t” but it’s not like checking whether you’re angry (which usually has relatively standard and straightforwardly checkable physiological correlates). I expect that the average person asking “am I happy right now” is more likely than not to get a wrong or nonsensical answer.
You also wrote (#2):
As above, I don’t think that happiness is a “state” in a useful sense of the word, but I do think that humans can (and most, probably, do) prefer to be happy rather than not being happy.
And (#3):
Yep, generally true. One can quibble with this (e.g. the caveats that you give in parentheses), but as a basic pattern it is true.
But:
Ah, but notice the difference: “make a person happier” vs. “make a person happy”. The latter makes sense if happiness is just an emotional state that one can be in. But if that’s not right—if happiness is more like a characteristic of a person’s experience over time, for example—then the latter form doesn’t make much sense anymore. But the former makes sense either way.