Huh, this doesn’t have a bajillion upvotes? I’ve seriously been thinking about this since it was originally posted. I’ve been revealing to people that I’m an empathetic oofer, so they shouldn’t worry about causing awkwardness by what they do as long as they feel ok doing it. I’ve been more carefwl around people whom I model as intrinsic oofers because I realise that I can’t just ask people to adopt my culture unless they’re intrinsically somewhat like me.
Huh, this doesn’t have a bajillion upvotes? I’ve seriously been thinking about this since it was originally posted. I’ve been revealing to people that I’m an empathetic oofer, so they shouldn’t worry about causing awkwardness by what they do as long as they feel ok doing it. I’ve been more carefwl around people whom I model as intrinsic oofers because I realise that I can’t just ask people to adopt my culture unless they’re intrinsically somewhat like me.