Ah, gotcha. I guess I’d give the same advice hypothetically… establish a general framework in which asking for things you (both) want is a good thing. This is just a special case of that.
As for how to do that, well, it depends a lot on the people involved. Mostly, my advice is to ask for things you want, and encourage her to do the same, and see where that goes.
Ah, gotcha. I guess I’d give the same advice hypothetically… establish a general framework in which asking for things you (both) want is a good thing. This is just a special case of that.
As for how to do that, well, it depends a lot on the people involved. Mostly, my advice is to ask for things you want, and encourage her to do the same, and see where that goes.