As with any expertise, the standard heuristic is “if you can’t do it in-house, outsource it”. In this case, that means “if you have a trusted friend who does ‘get vibes’, consult with them when in doubt (or even when not in doubt, for the avoidance thereof)”.
Of course, the other standard heuristic is “it takes expertise to recognize expertise”, so finding a sufficiently trusted friend to consult on such things may be difficult, if you do not already have any such. Likewise, principal-agent problems apply (although sufficiently close friends should be as close to perfect alignment with the principal as any agent can realistically get).
As with any expertise, the standard heuristic is “if you can’t do it in-house, outsource it”. In this case, that means “if you have a trusted friend who does ‘get vibes’, consult with them when in doubt (or even when not in doubt, for the avoidance thereof)”.
Of course, the other standard heuristic is “it takes expertise to recognize expertise”, so finding a sufficiently trusted friend to consult on such things may be difficult, if you do not already have any such. Likewise, principal-agent problems apply (although sufficiently close friends should be as close to perfect alignment with the principal as any agent can realistically get).