So, essentially, this is: “yeah, sure, my boyfriend/girlfriend has this horrible aspect of their personality, but they were otherwise a good person / the sex was great / whatever”.
Ok. Sure. If your criticism would be obviated by the addition of a ceteris paribus clause to my comment, then consider it added.
You can say that about almost any undesirable personality trait, though. That doesn’t make said trait any more desirable. Many things can be very undesirable without being hard dealbreakers (especially if discovered after you’re already involved with the person). All else being equal, though, I would certainly prefer dating a person without the trait in question, than with.
So, essentially, this is: “yeah, sure, my boyfriend/girlfriend has this horrible aspect of their personality, but they were otherwise a good person / the sex was great / whatever”.
Ok. Sure. If your criticism would be obviated by the addition of a ceteris paribus clause to my comment, then consider it added.
You can say that about almost any undesirable personality trait, though. That doesn’t make said trait any more desirable. Many things can be very undesirable without being hard dealbreakers (especially if discovered after you’re already involved with the person). All else being equal, though, I would certainly prefer dating a person without the trait in question, than with.