That is quite a false equivalency, since the term “fat” is loaded with all sorts of normative connotations and judgments, which the word “short” is not.
If you take “fat” to mean something like “in the Nth percentile of mass to height ratio, for some appropriate N”, then you are misunderstanding how most people use the term. When your friend asks you “do I look fat in this dress”, she most certainly is not asking you about the physical facts of her weight in pounds, and how that number relates to relevant population measures. If you answer “yes”, you have not merely provided your best assessment of a physical measurement.
That is quite a false equivalency, since the term “fat” is loaded with all sorts of normative connotations and judgments, which the word “short” is not.
Don’t be so sure of that.. I’ll grant that it isn’t quite as widespread or vocal, but it’s definitely there.
It would be a false equivalency if I wasn’t continually stressing “unquestionably fat.” Meaning that the person is fat within the judgements of almost all reasonable people and thus removing most of the gray area.
In that case, I would indeed compare it to someone who is “unquestionably short” (short can of course depend on the population, and who is being compared as well, but there is certainly a range of height that is also well outside any reasonable measure of average) asking if they were short.
Hopefully thus, you can see how unquestionably short can make the question of “am I short” seem as bizarre or indicative of a perception problem as unquestionably fat can make “do I look fat” in my eyes.
That is quite a false equivalency, since the term “fat” is loaded with all sorts of normative connotations and judgments, which the word “short” is not.
If you take “fat” to mean something like “in the Nth percentile of mass to height ratio, for some appropriate N”, then you are misunderstanding how most people use the term. When your friend asks you “do I look fat in this dress”, she most certainly is not asking you about the physical facts of her weight in pounds, and how that number relates to relevant population measures. If you answer “yes”, you have not merely provided your best assessment of a physical measurement.
Don’t be so sure of that.. I’ll grant that it isn’t quite as widespread or vocal, but it’s definitely there.
On a lighter note, “I expected someone taller”.
Hi Said,
It would be a false equivalency if I wasn’t continually stressing “unquestionably fat.” Meaning that the person is fat within the judgements of almost all reasonable people and thus removing most of the gray area.
In that case, I would indeed compare it to someone who is “unquestionably short” (short can of course depend on the population, and who is being compared as well, but there is certainly a range of height that is also well outside any reasonable measure of average) asking if they were short.
Hopefully thus, you can see how unquestionably short can make the question of “am I short” seem as bizarre or indicative of a perception problem as unquestionably fat can make “do I look fat” in my eyes.