-Taking the non-thinking NPC college route (going to whatever school was close enough to commute to, majoring in classes you thought were easy or letting your family influence your decision too much)
-Getting married extremely young because you think (probably correctly) that you can’t support yourself, and then staying married much longer than you should have for the same reasoning (probably incorrect, by then).
-Spending most of college trying (and failing miserably) to take a large course load before realizing that you really just can’t do it, and the only way for you to actually succeed is to only take two or three classes at a time so that you can do perfectly in all of them (i.e. stop trying to fight your perfectionism if it’s causing you to fail, and just give in to it).
-Waiting much too long to start on a career track.
-Taking the non-thinking NPC college route (going to whatever school was close enough to commute to, majoring in classes you thought were easy or letting your family influence your decision too much)
-Getting married extremely young because you think (probably correctly) that you can’t support yourself, and then staying married much longer than you should have for the same reasoning (probably incorrect, by then).
-Spending most of college trying (and failing miserably) to take a large course load before realizing that you really just can’t do it, and the only way for you to actually succeed is to only take two or three classes at a time so that you can do perfectly in all of them (i.e. stop trying to fight your perfectionism if it’s causing you to fail, and just give in to it).
-Waiting much too long to start on a career track.
Upvoted for your mistake #3, which bit me as well (except it looks like you figured it out before graduating, whereas I didn’t).