Where does this end?
I judge people pretty harshly, but that includes myself. In fact, in a way I judge myself most harshly, because I have to think about myself the most.
The vibe that I get is that John is usually talking about people who aren’t trying to radically self-improve. most of us are over that bar, and self-judgement is apparently part of the reason in my case at least. But it’s also, obviously, not enough.
imo the place to end is accepting that different people have different values and priorities and different ways they want to live by them—and they’re free to do so—the judging thing often comes from a false expectation kinda thing imo
Where does this end?
I judge people pretty harshly, but that includes myself. In fact, in a way I judge myself most harshly, because I have to think about myself the most.
The vibe that I get is that John is usually talking about people who aren’t trying to radically self-improve.
most of us are over that bar, and self-judgement is apparently part of the reason in my case at least. But it’s also, obviously, not enough.
imo the place to end is accepting that different people have different values and priorities and different ways they want to live by them—and they’re free to do so—the judging thing often comes from a false expectation kinda thing imo