It’s worse than that. I’ve been aware of this since I was a teenager, but apparently there’s no amount of correction that’s enough. These days I try to avoid making decisions that will be affected in either direction by limerance, or pre-commit firmly to a course of action and then trust that even if I want to update the plan, I’m going to regret not doing what I pre-committed to earlier.
It’s worse than that. I’ve been aware of this since I was a teenager, but apparently there’s no amount of correction that’s enough. These days I try to avoid making decisions that will be affected in either direction by limerance, or pre-commit firmly to a course of action and then trust that even if I want to update the plan, I’m going to regret not doing what I pre-committed to earlier.