Individually very minor, petty reasons, befitting a very minor, petty action:
1) It bored me.
2) Your research skills are very impressive and I’d rather them be directed towards CEV or the like.
3) Ugh field concerning this site and sex/dating questions.
4) There’s no puzzle to it; you’re not illustrating any broader methodological point or coming to any new conclusions, just acting as a clearinghouse for dating advice.
Just to agree with the above, and expand my feelings:
I don’t see a lot of new ideas here. It would surprise me if an average less wrong reader hadn’t spent a little time researching this topic, and all of this is fairly mainstream information.
I have a very strong ugh field set up around instrumentally pursuing females. After a bad break up, I spent about 6 months learning PUA, I had quite good success (my physical appearance is not lacking), but found the whole thing to be so pathetically empty compared to previous “organic” relationship that I felt defeated even though I wasn’t.
I realize that this can probably be accounted for, and note that it is one area that the PUA community seems to be lacking in. Lots of emotionally unfulfilling sex isn’t optimal by a long shot, though it may be beneficial for a certain subset of individuals.
Anyways, one of the most important things I learned was to try and avoid too much theory, and break it down into individual actionable items. Given that with this topic especially, readers will likely come from all over the spectrum of possible skill levels, that might be a hard thing to do. But perhaps behavioral exercises… links to resources and specific suggestions for conversation, fashion, body language.
On #5, part of me wants to agree, because we’re not a sciencer about.com, but another part of me really wants there to be more lesswrong members becoming more instrumentally rational. Maybe even, as an exercise, asking members to find there own ugh field, use the value of scholarship, compile useful material into a quality post (along the same lines as Luke does), apply it in real life, and then report on it, either in a discussion thrsad or in an offshoot of the main post. This seems like a really basic thing that a rationalist gym should/ would do.
Individually very minor, petty reasons, befitting a very minor, petty action:
1) It bored me.
2) Your research skills are very impressive and I’d rather them be directed towards CEV or the like.
3) Ugh field concerning this site and sex/dating questions.
4) There’s no puzzle to it; you’re not illustrating any broader methodological point or coming to any new conclusions, just acting as a clearinghouse for dating advice.
5) “A Rational Approach to...”
Just to agree with the above, and expand my feelings:
I don’t see a lot of new ideas here. It would surprise me if an average less wrong reader hadn’t spent a little time researching this topic, and all of this is fairly mainstream information.
I have a very strong ugh field set up around instrumentally pursuing females. After a bad break up, I spent about 6 months learning PUA, I had quite good success (my physical appearance is not lacking), but found the whole thing to be so pathetically empty compared to previous “organic” relationship that I felt defeated even though I wasn’t.
I realize that this can probably be accounted for, and note that it is one area that the PUA community seems to be lacking in. Lots of emotionally unfulfilling sex isn’t optimal by a long shot, though it may be beneficial for a certain subset of individuals.
Anyways, one of the most important things I learned was to try and avoid too much theory, and break it down into individual actionable items. Given that with this topic especially, readers will likely come from all over the spectrum of possible skill levels, that might be a hard thing to do. But perhaps behavioral exercises… links to resources and specific suggestions for conversation, fashion, body language.
On #5, part of me wants to agree, because we’re not a sciencer about.com, but another part of me really wants there to be more lesswrong members becoming more instrumentally rational. Maybe even, as an exercise, asking members to find there own ugh field, use the value of scholarship, compile useful material into a quality post (along the same lines as Luke does), apply it in real life, and then report on it, either in a discussion thrsad or in an offshoot of the main post. This seems like a really basic thing that a rationalist gym should/ would do.
So thorough! Thanks.
As for being boring, I will admit this post was written before I decided to sometimes try harder with my writing style.