What do I do? I don’t know how to react/behave when she’s doing this.
Walk away. Definitely don’t engage or react emotionally, that just rewards the codependency.
The other option it may be too late for: Lie. When in Rome do as Roman (Catholics) do. Sharing details about your models of reality is something you do for your own benefit with people who can interact with it in a way you consider useful. It’s not something you are obliged to do with people who are unstable, controlling and ineffectually manipulative.
Walk away. Definitely don’t engage or react emotionally, that just rewards the codependency.
The other option it may be too late for: Lie. When in Rome do as Roman (Catholics) do. Sharing details about your models of reality is something you do for your own benefit with people who can interact with it in a way you consider useful. It’s not something you are obliged to do with people who are unstable, controlling and ineffectually manipulative.